Dont of dating
It’s an exclusive thing, and once I truly like a girl, I have no problem taking her out on all sorts of dates and doing all kinds of grand romantic gestures for her. Historically, dating has been used as a method of finding companionship and, let’s be honest, a way to have sex.Over the years, people have found other, easier ways to achieve the same goals, and conventional dating has become unnecessary.But is it so wrong for me to ask for a girl's opinion while planning an evening that I want to make sure she enjoys? After asking and planning this special event, the guy has to pay for the whole thing!I know some ladies don’t mind going dutch or finding someway to split costs (which is great), but how many would offer to do so on the first date?First off, asking a girl out on an actual date can be stressful because of the possibility of rejection.I mean, asking somebody on a date is serious business.
I wouldn’t let her pay for the first date even if she did offer, because I wouldn’t want her to think I’m cheap, or that I asked her out on a date I couldn’t afford. At the end of the day, if I really do like her and we vibe well, I don’t mind paying. The way guys and girls interact and display their attraction to one another has changed. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sliding in the DM’s, or letting somebody know you’re interested in them through a few Instagram likes.If I buy you some flowers, write a heartfelt letter telling you how I feel, and ask you on a date, I’m probably serious about you.If I’m not putting in more effort than asking you to come hang out and watch Netflix, I probably just want to have some fun.Personally, I have no desire to ask every girl I find physically attractive out on a real date because of all the hassles I’ve already mentioned, and even if I did, I couldn’t afford it. I’m also an athlete, which means I’m even more broke than the average college student, because football is a full-time commitment.Plus, I’m living out here in Silicon Valley, which is one of the most expensive places in the world.