Dating a girl four years younger
But let's be fair: There's a reason we tend to date people who are closer in age.So, if something seems too good to be true (read: he or she is too hot for you by about eight years), it probably is.To be clear, not knowing who The Fugees are or simply missing someone's references doesn't make you a bad person.It makes you ignorant of great music, and definitely not a match.Here are four problems you'll likely run into if you break the 8-year rule: I once went out with a woman who was under the impression that Lauryn Hill was made famous by being in "Sister Act 2."Now, there are a few reactions you can have to this.One is, “Well, it a good movie.” Two is, “God, people already forgot about The Fugees, huh? ” If your answer is either two or three, then we're on the same page.
So to be clear, I'm not dumping on anyone who still lives with their folks.However, I am saying that if you're 30 and dating someone who lives with their parents… This one is going to make me sound old AF, and I'm OK with that.It starts with how frequently they text, how surprised they are by phone calls as a mode of communication and how irresponsibly they handle getting back to people in a timely, appropriate fashion.Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.Making the most of being an older man with a younger woman The fact is, she fell for you, not a younger guy, and you have to play up your strengths without overcompensating or displaying any insecurities.